Encourage a Mom you know

"Anyone can have children, it takes a woman of integrity to become a mother."

If you know anything about me from reading my blogs, it's that I put a lot of thought into most of my decisions. I over think, I research, I pray, I discuss with friends, I think some more...then I make decisions. When it comes to mothering, this is an area I try my hardest to make the best decisions. I fail at times. Why? Because I'm human. Because I've only been a mother for 3 years. And because I'm just learning as I go. Like any great mother, I love my kids beyond words. I was amazed at how instant my love for Addison was the moment she arrived. I was amazed at how even though I knew I would love Weston, I didn't realize I would love him in a very different, but equally as great way. I honestly strive to be a great mother in every way. It isn't easy. And I constantly feel the pressure. I think it's normal as a mother to second guess. Because you care so much, you're always wondering if you're doing things right or making the right decisions. It's easy to push yourself to do more simply because we want the best for our kids. I think a healthy dose of this is necessary.

Sometimes though it can be overwhelming. It can get stressful. It certainly isn't a glamorous job. I remember when Addison was a baby she spit up so much and so often that if I were just staying at home, it depended on how much spit up I was wearing whether I changed or not. William-Weston is the poop master and can fill up a diaper and all of his clothes like no baby I've ever seen. I keep my nails as numbs because Weston is at the stage that everything goes in his mouth and I don't want to hurt him if I dig something out. Sure I'd love manicure nails again one day, but for now that's not important. What's most important in my life right now are my kids.

As a mother, it means so much to hear that I'm doing a good job. When people compliment Addison's behavior or tell me how happy my kids are and how that's a sign of a happy home. Even when a woman I hardly know tells me how great I'm doing it makes me feel so good. When my mom or Nathan tells me they're proud of me for being such a great mom, it makes me cry. I think it's important for all mothers to hear this. Because it doesn't matter if you just became a mother, or if you're a grandmother. You need to hear you're doing a good job. God designed us to be mothers. Motherhood should not be taken lightly. It is the highest of all callings and the greatest of responsibilities. I'm going to make mistakes. I'm going to fail. I wont always make the right decisions. But I'm going to keep trying. I've got two little blessing counting on me. And I'm learning life isn't about being perfect, it's about being committed to try.

And when doubt creeps in I just look at these two babies...

Oh how much I love them! How much my heart beams with pride! I am so thankful God chose me to be their mom!!

So this mother's day, encourage a mom you know. It might just be exactly what she needs to hear! :)